blackshoe, on 2012-March-12, 11:46, said:
Someone upthread suggested the proper way (or at least a proper way) to respond to a question about your partner's bidding when you aren't sure is "please look at the card". Is this a good approach, David?
I am not sure what is a good approach. Certainly some people have said so, but there is a danger of some obtuse opponents saying "If I wanted to look at the card, I would not have asked!".
I really think this is a question of attitude. The Laws do not cover what to do when you do not know the answer, and I think you have to muddle along as best you can, with the askee trying to be helpful, and the asker not being too obtuse. Nothing is perfect.
Phil, on 2012-March-12, 14:43, said:
I also like the idea of "partner, leave the table for a second (albeit it is more proper if the director makes this instruction)"
Of course, this creates UI immediately. It may not be hte best approach. Nevertheless, it has happened in my experience without problems.
blackshoe, on 2012-March-12, 17:37, said:
So what should I say? I can't say "we're a new partnership", I can't say "I'm not sure", I can't say "look at the card", I can't say "I'm not sure, but..." (this one will get interrupted), I can't say "I have no clue " (which would be untrue). So what can I say?
In my view, you can say any of these. Everything is in the attitude and approach. Certainly, sometimes anything you say will get an unfortunate response - just live with it.