pran, on 2014-March-01, 05:39, said:
This what really worries me with many players today: They forget that bridge is a game for gentlemen and ladies and use every opportunity to win at any cost.
If a gentleman is aware that an opponent apparently (incorrectly) believes he won the trick that gentlemnan will not wait and hope for the opponent to commit a lead out of turn, he will immediately call attention that "it was not your trick".
Of course, and in tennis you are not allowed to hit hard.
So, in practice, it varies what is considered ethical. At the local bridge club, bridge is a social game for ladies and gentlemen. For a lady or gentleman it would indeed be a shocking suggestion to try to take advantage of a disconcerted opponent.
Once you get to a highly competitive level, the aim is to be smarter than the opponent. The game is defined by the Laws. Obviously, you are still behaving nicely and try to make it an enjoyable time for everyone, because the Laws tell you to. But they do not tell you to prevent an opponent from doing something silly. Bridge is a game of making as few mistakes as possible, or at least making less than the opponents. This means that you allow opponents to make their mistakes. At that level, there is nothing unethical about this.
This is far from the same as trying to win at all cost. There is no cheating, there are no dirty tricks trying to distract the opponent, no kicking under the table. It is only allowing the opponents to make a mistake.
Rik
I want my opponents to leave my table with a smile on their face and without matchpoints on their score card - in that order.
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