Posted 2014-December-22, 14:37
Cooperative games are a very good way to handle different levels of competitiveness in one's gaming community. Players like you (and me) get frustrated at the games that are effectively roll-the-dice and see-who-wins; other players lose it very quickly if it's "okay, I show up, JLall wins" (especially if money's involved), or give up very quickly if there are "serious fun" players at the table ("I just agreed to play games because it was a fun time. If you're going to take it so seriously, it's not worth it"; as opposed to most here, where it's "it's not fun if we just push cards"). Also sometimes it's nice to do stupid game to get the mind off (see the popularity, at least in the TO junior area, of "Kent" waiting for the bridge game to start. Sure, that's competitive, but anybody who takes the game seriously needs to have their head examined).
I really like Pandemic - serious enough that I can get my "want to win, how do we do it" on, while still having "we win or we lose", not "I win and you lose". Slightly less "cooperative", I like Scotland Yard, or Princess Ryan's Space Marines, where it's "one versus the rest" - if there's a specific "winner", somehow, they get to be the "one" next time.
I'm as competitive as the next person (unless money is involved, in which case, I'm quite certain that the best players will eat my dead money, so I might as well spend it on lottery tickets (which I don't do)), but not against the "it's important that I beat you at this game and all others to demonstrate my superiority over you" people or the "If you attack me in this game, I'll make my sole job taking you out of any future game we ever play, and that's why I always win" people (I set one of those up lo, those many years ago, with Titan. I was about to attack him right at the beginning of the game (which is stupid), and he went into his spiel, which I had of course heard before. Then the next person attacked his other stack, effectively putting him so far behind he'd never catch up (as would the two of us). Then someone else attacked his remnants. Then he realized that *everyone* in the game had as goal 1 "take this guy out, then let's play", and...) If someone has to take something out of the game and into either another game or real life, I don't see why I should play games with that someone. No, I'm not pointing that at anybody here (although I will aim "why should I pay more to give you my money? It pays to the top 8, and I expect to be 30th on a good day" at those who say "oh you should offer money prizes, that brings in the younger players")
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