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But I am pretty sure I know you well enough to say with confidence that you would never burst out laughing at the table if your opponents opened 2D and explained their bid as "mini-Roman" (and I happen to agree with you about the value of this convention in a natural system). That would be rude and insulting. While you might well enjoy a laugh over this convention at the bar after the game, you are not the sort of guy who would behave that way at the table. Furthermore, I expect it would really bother you if your partner behaved that way.
My objection to the sort of posts I have been complaining about essentially amount to the same thing. Of course it is fine for you to have an opinion about the correlation between skill level and mini-Roman (or whatever), but I don't see the point of expressing these sorts of opinions in a public forum (unless you don't care about hurting large numbers of peoples' feelings and I am pretty sure that is not the case with the Mike Hargreaves that I know).
Of course I wouldn't burst out laughing at an opp for the opp's methods. On reflection, I can see how the posts here might seem equivalent, but I don't think that that was the intent.
I think part of the problem is that in today's world there is a tendency to equate ignorance with stupidity. Only non-knowledgable players play certain very ineffective conventions or treatments: thus we can draw fairly reliable (but not infallible) inferences about a player's skill level if, in an uncontested auction such as 1
♠ 2
♦ 2
♥ 3
♥ 4
♣, it turned out that 4
♣ was gerber, and on the next board they opened a mini-roman in a natural system.
These opps might be very intelligent people but, for whatever reason, including inexperience, they are ignorant of the expert thinking.
We are all ignorant of much of human knowledge: the fields of knowledge being as vast as they are. No one can be expert in all they do....unless they do virtually nothing. And while there is some correlation between bridge skill and intelligence, it is not absolute... the smartest person I ever knew was hopeless at bridge, even tho he loved to play.
I would not go into the local club, nor would I write an article for the unit newsletter announcing that one can identify ignorant or non-expert players by their conventions. But these fora attract people who are serious about the game. Some are already expert, but I know, from pms I have received, that many players, including the experts, want to learn more. If any reader here sees that respected posters feel that using mini-roman, for example, is a sign of a lack of knowledge, and that reader has been a user of mini-roman (as I was many years ago), maybe these posts will prompt the reader to wonder why. And learning and understanding the reasons most (all?) experts now disdain the use of the convention will probably advance the reader's understanding of the game.
So, while I agree with your main point that it is wrong to insult or ridicule anyone, I still don't see the posts here (Phil's, Frances' Adam's, mine and most of the others along these lines) in that light. Post them where casual players read, and I'd agree with you. And if anyone reading these posts thought that being told that their use of a certain gadget revealed them to be stupid or inherently inferior, as a person, then I would apologize and hope to explain that they are confusing ignorance with stupidity. I was almost certainly more intelligent when playing mini-roman and rolling gerber than I am now.... but I am a lot more knowledgable these days... I was a beginner then, and can claim to be an expert these days. Not because I got smarter... but because I learned more about the game. One reason I and many others post here is to give something back.. to help others reduce their ignorance... and since I am writing to the person behind BBO, I know that you share that wish, probably to a far greater extent than I.
If any reader here felt offended by my posts, I do apologize.
'one of the great markers of the advance of human kindness is the howls you will hear from the Men of God' Johann Hari