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partner said I needed 5-5
There are too many auctions. You won't be able to cover them all with partner, in this lifetime or the next.
So you need general rules that can capture multiple auctions - this way you have some chance at knowing what partner has when a sequence comes up.
If you and pard are on completely different wavelengths, chances are that your results will suffer ( at least in the sense that your results will be more likely to be skewed from the norm )
What pard might have been saying is:
Look, there is no chance we can discuss every possible sequence under the sun. I'd like us to be on the same page about what a 2-suiter shows.
Without discussion, this would show at least 5-5, as far as I can tell from my understanding of the game. So let's not deviate from what 'standard' is, if you please, without explicit agreements to do so. If you'd rather, let's agree to play a style where it is ok to never quite be sure what pard has. This will increase volatility, after all, and some people think that increasing volatility is a good way to win more frequently.
I was surprised to see that so many people were willing to play this as 54 or 45. Presumably they're playing a pre-balancing style, bec. I can't imagine they'd spring (say) a Michaels overcall on partner with 4-5 or 5-4 in the majors. It isn't clear to me that a pre-balancing style is something one should unleash w/o discussion.
Anyway - to me the takeaway is: if you want to build a partnership with this pard, you need to figure out what undiscussed sequences should mean ( by picking a style, a general approach ). No point worrying about specific sequences except as they apply to the larger picture..